"I do not mean in any controlling way, or anything like that. But in the usual way that long term, life partners do. We have a responsibility towards one another, we belong together, much of what we do, if not everything, is done with one another's happiness, safety, pleasure in mind. Is it not?" *love* And then you gave us playful and provocative Ducky...I'm all tingly! Love the boys so, so much when you write them...*happy little sigh*